April: 01st - April Fool's Day 01st - Syahrul's Birthday 02nd - Avril Lavigne Bonez Tour 03rd - Mum's Blood Test @ KK 05th - Doctor Appointment @ TTSH 07th - Justin ORD 10th - Mum's Surgery @ KK Hospital 12th - Aaron's Brthday 13th - Doctor Appointment @ TTSH 13th - Opening Of (Eight Below) 12th - Opening Of Movie (Firewall) 14th - Good Friday Holiday 17th - Gary's Birthday
20th - Boss's Birthday
20th - Boss's Birthday Celebration
23rd - Emil & Jonathon Concert 05
26th - Andy Lim's Birthday
May:
01st - Progress Reward Banked In
01st - Labour Day Holiday
01st - Jennifer's Birthday
05th - Opening Of Movie (MI:3)
09th - Winnie's Birthday
12th - Vesak Day Holiday
18th - Opening Of (Da Vinci Code)
25th - Opening Of Movie (X-Men 3)
:: Wish Upon A Star ::
01) A Girlfriend? Let Fate Decide It
02) More Incoming Funds (Money)
03) Apple iPod Video 30 GB ($548)
04) Complete My National Service
05) A Handphone (Nokia N91)
06) A New Wallet
07) New Adidas Watch
08) Apple iMac G5
09) Looking For Pen Pals
:: Current Config ::
Typing On:
- HP iPAQ rx3715
[Samsung S3C 2440 Processor]
[152MB Internal Memory]
[1GB Scandisk SD-Card]
[64K Transflective type QVGA TFT]
[Integrated WLAN 802.11b]
[Integrated Bluetooth]
[1.2 MegaPixels Camera]
[PocketPC Windows Mobile 2003]
- IBM Thinkpad T22
[Intel® Mobile Pentium-III 900MHz]
[1GB RAM]
[60GB IBM HDD]
[64MB ATI Mobility RADEON 7500]
[DVD/CD-RW Drive]
[Iomega USB 250MB ZIP Drive]
[14.1" TFT Active Display Matrix]
[Internal Lucent V.90 Modem]
[Intel PRO/1000 Gbps Ethernet]
[Windows 2000 Professional]
- My Own Personnal Rig
[Intel Pentium-IV 1.7GHz]
[Asus P4P800 Deluxe]
[512MB x 2 Kingston DDR400 D43]
[80GB DiamondMax Plus 9 HDD]
[128MB NVIDIA GeForce4 Ti 4200]
[Creative Audigy 2 Platinum]
[Internal Toshiba DVD-ROM Drive]
[Internal Pioneer DVD-RW Drive]
[External Plextor CD-RW Drive]
[Internal Iomega 250MB Zip Drive]
[17" ViewSonic CRT Monitor GS771]
[smartNIC PnP Network Adapter]
[Altec Lansing ACS 44]
[Windows XP Professional]
Pan Wei Bo
Bu De Bu Ai
Wang Li Hom
Kiss Goodbye
Cyndi Wang Xin Ling
Ai Ni
Yan Cheng Xu
Yi Gong Chi
Lin Jun Jie
Cao Cao
Wang Li Hom
Forever Love
Wu Ke Qun
Wu Ke Qun
Jay Zhou Jie Lun
Yi Lu Ziang Bei
S.H.E
Tian Hui
Jay Zhou Jie Lun
Gui Ji
Zhang Jing Xuan
My Way
Jolin Cai Yi Ling
Ye Man You Xi
Jay Zhou Jie Lun & Lara
Shan Wu Hai
Wang Li Hom
Ni Bu Zai
Lena Park
Moon
S.H.E
Ai Ne
Akon
Lonely
Alicia Keys
Karma
S.H.E
Xing Guang
B.O.A
Alantis Princess
Xiao Ya Xuan
Di Xia Tie
F.I.R
You Make Me Wanna Fall In Love
Jolin Cai Yi Lin
Hai Dao
Jackie Chan & Jin Xi Shan
Shen Hua
Horoscope for Scorpio 17 April 2006 ~ 23 April 2006
You need to keep busy doing things that you both enjoy. Think twice before you say something you might regret later. Take care of any pressing medical problems that you or one of your parents may be suffering from. Outdoor sports events should entice you.
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Sunday, March 20, 2005
Relationships
I came across "He's Just Not That Into You" while making a window-shopping trip around town. Many of you have probably seen it on Oprah or heard about it.
What you hear is true: Every woman should read it. It's written by a woman and man who both work on Sex and the City. Choosing not to purchase such a random-self-relationship-help book, I cheatingly spent some time at the bookstore reading it.
Much of it is pretty hilarious. The concept of the book is clear.
The point is, if he's not calling, not asking you out, etc., then don't waste your time and energy worrying about it and making up excuses for him. Guys will go for what they want. We're way too great to be obsessing about relationships that will never happen or be successful. Let's wait for the ones who will make the effort and treat us as we should be treated. As the female co-author says on the back cover, "We're fantastic."
This kind of brings me to a conversation I had with a female friend a while ago. Being the great girl that she is, she said: "Every girl deserves to be treated like a queen." In a ball of confusion, I thought about it for a moment. It took me a while to agree and decide if that applied to me, but it is so true. I hope all girls will believe it too.
I wasn't quite sure if girls should be materialistically spoiled like queens. However, when your man treats you like a queen in terms of the way he thinks very highly of you, you can't help but start to live the way he sees you. This is the positive effect of being treated like a queen. You want to live up to that worthy image.
Now hear me out. I have been in relationships where I felt I was being a horrible boyfriend. But I've come to realize something as of late. It takes the right guy to make the right girlfriend [and vice versa]. When you truly care for someone, you would not do the things people do that ultimately end in arguments, or even worse, end relationships.
When you genuinely care for somebody, you don't hurt him, do things to manipulate feelings, make him jealous, try to acquire the upper-hand, grab the ball in your court, etc. You don't say angry words just to see how he would react. You don't test him. You don't go out to party to meet prospective guys. You don't make him jealous out of spite. You don't throw random fits just because you want more of his attention. You don't trick him into doing things for you. You don't discourage him to make up for your own shortcomings and insecurities. You don't do a lot of these things that have the slightest power to make him doubt your feelings towards him.
Unfortunately, many of us [guys and girls, mind you] have been found guilty of such actions. Most girls in relationships that I know have pulled these sort of tricks. And most of these girls have fallen out of their relationships in due time.
All these things seem ridiculous, but they’re not. Girls need the right guy to come along in order to be good girlfriends.
Don't settle for anything less, don't be anything less.
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